The Heartseed Relationship Lab

At the core of our work at Heartseed is Love. And ultimately, the Heart is a conduit of love.

Love is expressed in our relationships. In particular in our Sacred Partnerships.

But sometimes the flow of love gets constrained, our expressions become stifled, and disconnection and conflict fill our relationship like weeds in an overgrown garden.

A lab is a place where we experiment and make discoveries.

A lab is a place of alchemy, of catalysts and transformations. It’s a place for chemistry.

The Heartseed Relationship Lab is a container for learning, exploration, and experimentation in the service of Sacred Partnership.

In the lab, we get to be in a process that relieves us from “right” or “wrong”, that empowers us to find connection and truth within a safe and well held environment.

In the lab we get to learn how to make magic.

This is how Sacred Partnership blossoms.

At the center of this work is a devotion and dedication to Reclaiming our Sovereignty.

When we are fully in our Sovereignty we are fully in our Power. We understand that, like Love, Power is not a zero sum game - we do not have to diminish ourselves to empower or be in relationship with others, nor do we diminish others on our path to the full expression of our power in the world.

By Power we mean agency, strength, the ability to effect change in the world around us and the capacity to move towards and invite in the the fulfillment of our True and Essential Desires (not the impulses that we experience to avoid pain and discomfort and cloak  themselves as true desires, but the true Eros driven volition that comes from our deepest places, from our bones).

Relating from Sovereignty catalyzes the shift from codependence to healthy and wholesome interdependence.

In the lab we blend Relational Practices , ritual and ceremony , psychoeducation, dance, council, journaling, play, and art.

Who’s this for?

• Couples who feel like things have gotten rote and they’ve lost the spark

• Couples who are feeling decent about their relationship but know there’s more possible and want to grow into the next shape of their partnership

• Couples who are in a hard place but feel like they have a solid foundation

• Couples who feel stuck and bit lost but are willing to engage.

• Couples who are doing “fine”, but if they keep down this path will end up as strangers in 5-10 years.

Who is this not for?

• Couples in crisis.

• Couples who feel like they’re relationship is falling apart and hoping this could save them as the last ditch effort.

• Couples where only one of the partners is willing to engage and do the work.

How Does it Work?

We will meet: